How a Mother’s Day Mistake Changed My Perspective

Written By Steve Foran

In 1997, I bought a Mother’s Day gift that backfired–and it changed how I lead. I realized that good intentions don’t automatically translate into positive impact. This principle applies to teams, decisions, and relationships.

In this post, I share the story and the question every leader should ask before acting.

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